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"My kid is smart, but ..."
It takes more than school smarts to create a fulfilling life. In fact, many bright children face special challenges.
- Some are driven by perfectionism.
- Some are afraid of effort, because they're used to instant success.
- Some routinely butt heads with authority figures.
- Some struggle to get along with their peers.
- Some are outwardly successful but just don't feel good about themselves.
Smart Parenting for Smart Kids is a practical and compassionate book that explains the reasons behind these struggles and offers parents strategies to help children cope with feelings, embrace learning, and build satisfying relationships. Drawing from research as well as the authors' clinical experience, it focuses on the essential skills children need to make the most of their abilities and become capable, confident, and caring people.
Praise for Smart Parenting for Smart Kids
"This book is a literal godsend. Parents will find great wisdom in its pages."
?STEPHEN R. COVEY, author, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
"This fresh parenting book is filled with vignettes and strategies for raising smart kids to become healthy, happy and contributing adults."
?VICKI ABELES, Producer and Co-Director, Race to Nowhere
"A smart, deeply perceptive, and important book."
?WENDY MOGEL, PhD, author, The Blessing of a Skinned Knee
"Helps parents see how to encourage their children to develop as whole people with feelings, ideas, and the ability to cope with the occasional disappointment."
?ROBERTA MICHNICK GOLINKOFF, PhD, author, Einstein Never Used Flash Cards
"My kid is smart, but ..."
It takes more than school smarts to create a fulfilling life. In fact, many bright children face special challenges.
- Some are driven by perfectionism.
- Some are afraid of effort, because they're used to instant success.
- Some routinely butt heads with authority figures.
- Some struggle to get along with their peers.
- Some are outwardly successful but just don't feel good about themselves.
Smart Parenting for Smart Kids is a practical and compassionate book that explains the reasons behind these struggles and offers parents strategies to help children cope with feelings, embrace learning, and build satisfying relationships. Drawing from research as well as the authors' clinical experience, it focuses on the essential skills children need to make the most of their abilities and become capable, confident, and caring people.
Praise for Smart Parenting for Smart Kids
"This book is a literal godsend. Parents will find great wisdom in its pages."
?STEPHEN R. COVEY, author, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
"This fresh parenting book is filled with vignettes and strategies for raising smart kids to become healthy, happy and contributing adults."
?VICKI ABELES, Producer and Co-Director, Race to Nowhere
"A smart, deeply perceptive, and important book."
?WENDY MOGEL, PhD, author, The Blessing of a Skinned Knee
"Helps parents see how to encourage their children to develop as whole people with feelings, ideas, and the ability to cope with the occasional disappointment."
?ROBERTA MICHNICK GOLINKOFF, PhD, author, Einstein Never Used Flash Cards
The Authors
Eileen Kennedy-Moore, PhD, is a child and family clinical psychologist in Princeton, New Jersey. She is the author or coauthor of several books on children's feelings and friendships.
Mark S. Lowenthal, PsyD, has helped many children, teens, and their families during his twenty-two years as a clinical psychologist. His private practice is in Maplewood, New Jersey.
Note to the Reader ix
Acknowledgments xi
Introduction: Rethinking Potential 1
1 Tempering Perfectionism: What Is "Good Enough"? 10
Michael: Focusing on flaws 13
Kirsten: Deflecting blame 20
Sam: Avoiding activities at which he doesn't excel 30
Angela: Feeling inadequate 33
2 Building Connection: How Does Your Child Reach Out to Others? 43
Andrew: Seeking an audience rather than a friend 48
Clay: Avoiding joining the group 55
Amalia: Feeling rejected by peers 63
3 Managing Sensitivity: How Does Your Child Handle Criticism, Conflict, and Disappointment? 80
Mario: Perceiving betrayal 83
Jessica: Balking at constructive feedback 90
Samir: Chafing at a change of plans 97
Collin: Shouldering the world's woes 109
4 Handling Cooperation and Competition: How Does Your Child Fit in a Group? 118
Steven: Insisting on his way 121
Anita: Being a sore loser 130
Misha: Fearing competition 138
Craig: Dealing with competition in the family 146
5 Dealing with Authority: How Does Your Child Respond to Those in Charge? 161
Lisa: Being blind to authority 164
Nicholas: Making everything an argument 177
Stephanie: Fretting about adults' anger 192
6 Developing Motivation: What Matters to Your Child? 200
Ethan: Avoiding schoolwork 203
Jared: Complaining that schoolwork is boring 208
Diane: Not applying herself in school 221
7 Finding Joy: What Makes Your Child Feel Happy? 238
Monica: Finding fault instead of fun 242
Conner: Searching for personal meaning 251
Conclusion: The Pressure to Perform Versus the Power to Grow 272
Selected References and Recommended Reading 277
About the Authors 291
Index 293
| Erscheinungsjahr: | 2011 |
|---|---|
| Genre: | Importe |
| Produktart: | Ratgeber |
| Rubrik: | Sachliteratur |
| Medium: | Taschenbuch |
| Inhalt: | Kartoniert / Broschiert |
| ISBN-13: | 9780470640050 |
| ISBN-10: | 0470640057 |
| Sprache: | Englisch |
| Einband: | Kartoniert / Broschiert |
| Autor: |
Kennedy-Moore, Eileen
Lowenthal, Mark S |
| Hersteller: | Wiley |
| Maße: | 228 x 151 x 30 mm |
| Von/Mit: | Eileen Kennedy-Moore (u. a.) |
| Erscheinungsdatum: | 01.03.2011 |
| Gewicht: | 0,4 kg |
The Authors
Eileen Kennedy-Moore, PhD, is a child and family clinical psychologist in Princeton, New Jersey. She is the author or coauthor of several books on children's feelings and friendships.
Mark S. Lowenthal, PsyD, has helped many children, teens, and their families during his twenty-two years as a clinical psychologist. His private practice is in Maplewood, New Jersey.
Note to the Reader ix
Acknowledgments xi
Introduction: Rethinking Potential 1
1 Tempering Perfectionism: What Is "Good Enough"? 10
Michael: Focusing on flaws 13
Kirsten: Deflecting blame 20
Sam: Avoiding activities at which he doesn't excel 30
Angela: Feeling inadequate 33
2 Building Connection: How Does Your Child Reach Out to Others? 43
Andrew: Seeking an audience rather than a friend 48
Clay: Avoiding joining the group 55
Amalia: Feeling rejected by peers 63
3 Managing Sensitivity: How Does Your Child Handle Criticism, Conflict, and Disappointment? 80
Mario: Perceiving betrayal 83
Jessica: Balking at constructive feedback 90
Samir: Chafing at a change of plans 97
Collin: Shouldering the world's woes 109
4 Handling Cooperation and Competition: How Does Your Child Fit in a Group? 118
Steven: Insisting on his way 121
Anita: Being a sore loser 130
Misha: Fearing competition 138
Craig: Dealing with competition in the family 146
5 Dealing with Authority: How Does Your Child Respond to Those in Charge? 161
Lisa: Being blind to authority 164
Nicholas: Making everything an argument 177
Stephanie: Fretting about adults' anger 192
6 Developing Motivation: What Matters to Your Child? 200
Ethan: Avoiding schoolwork 203
Jared: Complaining that schoolwork is boring 208
Diane: Not applying herself in school 221
7 Finding Joy: What Makes Your Child Feel Happy? 238
Monica: Finding fault instead of fun 242
Conner: Searching for personal meaning 251
Conclusion: The Pressure to Perform Versus the Power to Grow 272
Selected References and Recommended Reading 277
About the Authors 291
Index 293
| Erscheinungsjahr: | 2011 |
|---|---|
| Genre: | Importe |
| Produktart: | Ratgeber |
| Rubrik: | Sachliteratur |
| Medium: | Taschenbuch |
| Inhalt: | Kartoniert / Broschiert |
| ISBN-13: | 9780470640050 |
| ISBN-10: | 0470640057 |
| Sprache: | Englisch |
| Einband: | Kartoniert / Broschiert |
| Autor: |
Kennedy-Moore, Eileen
Lowenthal, Mark S |
| Hersteller: | Wiley |
| Maße: | 228 x 151 x 30 mm |
| Von/Mit: | Eileen Kennedy-Moore (u. a.) |
| Erscheinungsdatum: | 01.03.2011 |
| Gewicht: | 0,4 kg |
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